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Welcome to my blog! I talk about everything from body safety and consent to setting boundaries like a badass and the dangers of the world wide web. If you’re looking for answers, I’ve got them!

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The #1 Most Important Skill Your Child Needs

Your child’s intuition is her first line of defense against danger and predatory people. And more than that, listening to her intuition will help her be more confident and increase her self-esteem, giving her a strong internal sense of self that will guide her and help her better resist pressure from others to be and behave in ways that aren’t authentic to her.

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Your Child is the Boss of His Body

Your child needs to know that his body is his and his alone and that no one has the right to touch it in an inappropriate way that’s hurtful or makes him feel violated—not you, not anyone. When you teach him about boundaries, also talk with him about this.

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‘No’ is a Complete Sentence

Every parent dreads running in the “no” wall with their child, but if you teach her when and how to say it, you’re giving her the most important tool to keep predators at bay.

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What to Teach Your Child about Digital Dangers

The “www” in the World Wide Web could just as easily stand for “wild, wild west!” It’s a whole different game online and predators run amok with no oversight and often no consequences. Here are some tips to teach your child to help him be savvier when he’s online.

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